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Starting Babies Reading Early

Saturday, April 17th, 2010

One of the things I’ve been most pleased with, now that she’s a year old, is that our daughter goes out of her way to interact with her books. She’ll pull them off her shelf and flip the pages herself, playing with all the textured bits on the touchy-feely ones, handing me the one of choice and shows obvious signs of excitement when I produce a book to read to her.

She’s so interested, that we use an ablative layer of books to protect the DVDs on the TV stand as they distract her from causing too much chaos!

One of the first things we received when she was born was a Bookstart pack. It’s a great idea, getting books into the hands of parents and kids early and encouraging parents to read to their offspring as soon as possible! It’s certainly something I can recommend both as a good shared experience and a satisfying feeling of achievement for a new parent.

I started reading to her very early on, within the first few months. In those early Sunday mornings when I was the one doing the baby shift so my wife could have a break. I read her Mister Magnolia, which is a fun Quentin Blake poem I remembered from my own childhood and that my mum had given to us. The rhyming sounds really seemed to click with her, even if the book is way too advanced for that age really, I knew the words off by heart and that was an advantage to finding the right voice.

Later on That’s Not My Bear and its many companion books were the reading material of choice due to the touchy-feely patches and easy to turn pages. We had lots of luck recently with Dear Zoo and Hide and Seek Bunnies – though these were once she’d got enough motor control to lift the flaps (about 9 months onwards). You’ll need to get a little less squeamish about books being damaged though with those though as infant hands are imprecise tools…

So anyway, the key thing was really to start early and make it a part of routine. At a year old she practically demands a story is read with her before bed, I’m immensely pleased by that and hope it’s the start of a lifelong love of reading!

So what tips and advice do you have for reading with baby?

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An Unexpected Home Birth

Wednesday, February 17th, 2010

The following is a guest post by Chris, republished with kind permission from his original post. It’s an great story, and one that I hope would give any expectant father confidence in their ability to cope with the unexpected…

This took 3-years to write

I have been trying to sit down and write this story now for the best part of three years. This morning I woke up super-early with one thing on my mind, so with a bit of procrastination, here we go…

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Books for New Dads that don’t Suck : Part 1

Wednesday, July 15th, 2009

So, you’ve just discovered you’re due to be a dad. Hurrah! It’s great, if a little daunting, isn’t it? Now if like me your instant reaction was, “I have no idea how this works, I know I’ll get a book!” then you may be looking for a book for new dads.

Unfortunately there’s a problem there, a lot of the info aimed at men isn’t good.

I bemoaned this fact to my partner and she discovered and purchased a copy of Fatherhood: The Truth for me.

I was really pleasantly surprised by it. It’s an honest, thoughtful and funny book about the ups, downs and highlights of fatherhood. What’s nice about it is it isn’t afraid to show the bad stuff, multifaceted worries and doubts. It’s got a nice dry line in humour and a tone that suited me as a cynical optimist. Of course if you’re a new dad, then chapter one is probably the most relevant, but you can read ahead to know what awaits you…

So that’s my recommendation. What books helped you?

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